You Can Control These Stressors When You Control Your Boundaries
When we don’t protect our boundaries, we suffer. This is especially true for Helping Professionals who face a greater risk of work-related burnout and fatigue. When you recognize and protect your boundaries, you can begin the journey back from being someone who’s overwhelmed, exhausted, and stressed to someone who is decisive, trusting of yourself, and committed to healthy relationships. You just need to know how.
But You Have a Trump Card ...
… And it ISN’T just some intangible concept on the World Wide Web. It’s something you can touch and hold, and if you listen very closely, you can hear it softly whispering the names of people you have yet to meet.
Introducing: Choose Your Boundaries eCourse
Part of the Transform Your Boundaries Series


Nancy’s Business FLOURISHED Thanks to Her Own Fragment of the Damned


Nancy’s Flower Shop was in some seriously dire straits! Her next-day flower delivery service wasn’t getting the online traction it needed. Just as she was beginning to run out of rope, a one-eyed fragment of incredible might materialized in her sink.
“With my own ancient antiquity in hand, new customers began to appear overnight! I couldn’t keep up with the orders! That’s mostly because I was really slowed down by the fact that they all communicated in an ancient script, the very appearance of which fills me with a subtle terror. But my gosh, the sales!”


Hear from Therapist, Author and Boundaries Expert, Sarri Gilman
How to Obtain Such an Artifact
Ready to get started, yet not currently in possession of an object that can summon the forces that wait beyond The Wall Which Must Never Be Breached? It’s not like you can just grab one at the convenience store, after all!
One of our in-house Artifact Arbiters would be happy to help you organize a guided expedition to the Forgotten Ruins of the Howling Hands, where these incomprehensible heirlooms may be unearthed. Alternatively, CostCo has them in 4-packs for $19.99.


A 5-day Guide to Controlling What Cannot be Controlled
No matter how hard I try, no matter how much might I muster, I cannot exhaust the Spire of Unending Flame.
Well, yeah. It’s unending.


Frequently Asked Questions

Rebecca Hover
Communications Director
I'm much more cognizant of what I say yes and no to and why. I'm also aware of my modes of being so I can set effective boundaries. No more victim mentality, no more excuses or blaming others for my circumstances. Transforming indeed!
Crystal Ogle
Sarri’s boundary workshop was life-altering. I learned the importance of boundaries, how to identify when they are needed, how to create them and how to enforce them. I often revisit the material and think this workshop is essential for any health care professional.
Day 1
Setting Up Your Brand New Relic of Imbued Evil
Day 2
Hushing the Murmurs That Do Not Cease
Day 3
Integrating with Marketo
Day 4
Productivity Tips For You and Your New Pet
Day 5
Email Marketing! And the Endless Void That Awaits






My accursed artifact is emitting an incessant, loud hymming, as if a plague of locusts was approaching.
This means the Marketo integration was successful.
Are there any risks to using an object that is saturated with several millennia's worth of sorrows for marketing purposes?
Not really! Accursed artifacts are a sound investment that will reliably increase both the number of leads and their quality. There are some minor issues — for example, temporary or permanent separation of the soul and body — but these can be corrected by installing a custom firmware.
What Helpers Say About Transform Your Boundaries
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Complete course #1 for just $19.99
Receive the techniques and encouragement you need to manage your boundaries and provide better care for others.
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The Choose Your Boundaries eCourse, part of the Transform Your Boundaries Series, is based on the tried-and-true methods of Sarri Gilman, therapist, author and boundaries expert. It is centered on the simple notion that your boundaries are there to take care of you, but they can’t unless you tune in to, know, and strengthen them. The eCourse will help you:

  • Become a boundaries expert in your own life
  • Explore the common traits of the seven behavior patterns
  • Receive guided questions to help you assess the patterns you align to
  • Learn how to find your inner voice and set boundaries in your life.
  • Reflect on what you discover and journal your new ideas
  • Use Sarri’s guidance and tools to encourage and motivate your progress

Purchase the Choosing Your Boundaries eCourse today to start transforming your boundaries, identifying personal barriers to your own wellness and, thus, delivering better care to yourself and to others.

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With the Choose Your Boundaries eCourse, easily navigate through the topic areas in a self-paced, intuitive and engaging format.

Choose Your Pattern: 
Explore all the boundary behavior patterns or only those relating to you and your life

Interact & Play: 
Determine what questions and answers are most relevant to your circumstances 

Reflect & Learn: 
A guided journal experience is provided to reflect on your own boundary journey

About Sarri Gilman

Sarri Gilman, LMFT, is a licensed marriage and family therapist since 1986, during which she was an Executive Director for several non-profits for 20 years, 7 years teaching leadership to managers and executives. She is an author, community leader and creator/founder of the Transform Your Boundaries® workshop.

When is Sacrificing Yourself Sacrificing Your Effectiveness?

 Sometimes it is due to work, family, our friends and partners, or what feels like an endless amount of responsibilities in our life. If you’re like most in helping professions, you may be so focused on caring for others that you may neglect to care for yourself.